08-02-2018, 10:22 AM
@Satiny
Aw, thanks for your concern abt my job! But, I'm not devastated by it or anything. It was not really anything i did, so basically it was inevitable. My boss is just a giant bitch (i used stronger words when talking with my counselor abt the situation), not my fault she doesn't like me or how I am, how I work, and how straighforward i address peoole and situations... so i don't really care. I was doing really well, connecting with customers and making really good tips (like 25%-50%!). And i think she wanted to squash that by giving me extra tasks thst i wasn't trained in or prepared for. I tried the extra tasks, it was a shitshow and she was there to see it, and so the next day i told her i wasnt comfortable with the new tasks, that they are outside my skillset. So she fired me, but on the grounds that she "wasnt comfortable with the conversation" and "didn't want to be told what to do in her restaurant". Whoop-dee-do, lady. I'm sorry but $11.50/hr isnt enough for me to be her bitch, especially if she's assigning me things that will make my service worse amd my tips go down. Her attitide was my main issue (seriously, she doesn't own my ass!), so i had to set a clear boundary, i.e. "I'm not comfortable with short order cooking and this has not been my responsibility before, and clearly i am not good at it" (I'm a server). I was only there for a few months since i just moved here mid April. In the history of my life, it's just the blink of an eye. I had to set a boundary with her and she didn't want to respect it. The problem is all hers. And i hope her sales plummet
Not worth my time if shes gonna try to make me fail and humiliate myself instead of being able to give great service and product. I can give great service elsewhere. Or i can find a low key job and just make 11.50 without the stress i don't need. I really could care less. She's a bitch to everyone anyway so i wasn't going to argue with her, there is no point. "Bye Felicia" as the kids say these days...
/endrant
Aw, thanks for your concern abt my job! But, I'm not devastated by it or anything. It was not really anything i did, so basically it was inevitable. My boss is just a giant bitch (i used stronger words when talking with my counselor abt the situation), not my fault she doesn't like me or how I am, how I work, and how straighforward i address peoole and situations... so i don't really care. I was doing really well, connecting with customers and making really good tips (like 25%-50%!). And i think she wanted to squash that by giving me extra tasks thst i wasn't trained in or prepared for. I tried the extra tasks, it was a shitshow and she was there to see it, and so the next day i told her i wasnt comfortable with the new tasks, that they are outside my skillset. So she fired me, but on the grounds that she "wasnt comfortable with the conversation" and "didn't want to be told what to do in her restaurant". Whoop-dee-do, lady. I'm sorry but $11.50/hr isnt enough for me to be her bitch, especially if she's assigning me things that will make my service worse amd my tips go down. Her attitide was my main issue (seriously, she doesn't own my ass!), so i had to set a clear boundary, i.e. "I'm not comfortable with short order cooking and this has not been my responsibility before, and clearly i am not good at it" (I'm a server). I was only there for a few months since i just moved here mid April. In the history of my life, it's just the blink of an eye. I had to set a boundary with her and she didn't want to respect it. The problem is all hers. And i hope her sales plummet
Not worth my time if shes gonna try to make me fail and humiliate myself instead of being able to give great service and product. I can give great service elsewhere. Or i can find a low key job and just make 11.50 without the stress i don't need. I really could care less. She's a bitch to everyone anyway so i wasn't going to argue with her, there is no point. "Bye Felicia" as the kids say these days...
/endrant
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