Don't want to

[Ashley]

Ashley would be Gramma Ashie and bake cookies and knit sweaters if she hadn't done dumb things she can't change.

But I did things I regret and didn't do things I wish I'd done and "family problems" involve kids I never want to see again as well as parents who still manage to be toxic from their expensive upscale retirement communities.

I'm not going to get political but heavens to Betsy....what Jman does choose to share with us is his courage, his responsibility for his own actions, and his utter refusal to....well, get political.

Jman is not a victim. He may have made some bad choices when he was younger, but he has never blamed anyone else for narrowing those choices or maybe leaving him with no other choice than the least bad thing.

I wish I knew where to get me some of that.